**Inside:** Discover how to nurture an emotionally intelligent child and understand why emotional intelligence (EI) is crucial for developing essential skills your child will need both now and in the future.
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Let’s be honest—when you first imagined raising children, fostering their emotional intelligence likely wasn’t high on your list of priorities. In recent generations, having a healthy understanding of our emotions wasn’t emphasized much. As a mental health expert, I see this as a significant reason behind the increasing numbers of people dealing with anxiety, depression, and other mental health challenges.
While early parenting focuses on your child’s survival, I believe it’s equally important to help them thrive as they grow. Encouraging emotional intelligence is key to your child’s success in the world.
Why is that? Understanding our own emotions and the emotions of others lays the groundwork for the social and emotional skills necessary for healthy, fulfilling relationships and careers. Research consistently highlights the critical role of emotional intelligence in shaping relationships and overall quality of life.
Emotional intelligence involves recognizing, understanding, and managing our own emotions and those of others. For children, this means becoming aware of their own emotions and learning to manage them effectively, both personally and in interactions with others.
If all this talk of “emotions” sounds a bit abstract, bear with me. Let me explain why emotional intelligence impacts so deeply your child’s relationships with themselves and others.
Being able to identify and navigate emotions is the foundation for developing every social and emotional skill. What does this mean? It means understanding which emotions we’re experiencing, accepting them as natural and healthy, and learning to manage them gives us the tools to interact positively with ourselves and others.
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Your child’s emotional intelligence forms the basis for numerous essential daily skills that influence almost everything they do and say. It’s powerful stuff! We know that nurturing emotionally intelligent children greatly enhances their chances of success in social and emotional endeavors and boosts their long-term well-being.
The great news is, if you haven’t been focusing on EI, it’s a trait that can be taught and modeled with straightforward everyday practices by parents.
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As a parent, you can foster emotional intelligence in your child’s daily life. Here are seven ways to start today:
1. Change the narrative around emotions. Though it may be difficult to see your child struggle, their future mental health and relationships depend on it.
2. Allow your child to express their emotions—feeling is a fundamental part of being human.
3. Be a calm, steady presence during intense emotions, normalizing emotional expression.
4. Consistently teach your child emotion words; recognizing emotions is the first step in working through them.
While we all have unique dreams and goals for our families, most of us agree that without mental health and meaningful relationships, everything else fades into the background. As parents, we can make a lasting impact by encouraging our children to live authentically, engaging in healthy, fulfilling relationships along the way.
By teaching and modeling emotional intelligence, you’re equipping your child with tools for healthy, lifelong relationships with themselves, classmates, friends, future coworkers, and partners.
When we cultivate emotional intelligence in our children, we give them the gift of emotional well-being, helping them grow and thrive in every part of life.
**Give your child the skills for LIFE.**
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